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(Warning: Unsolicited Advice) Communication is Important..

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And fucking evil and stupid.

And hard and deeply flawed and sometimes it seems impossible. I hate trying to discuss things because it seems my ability to misinterpret is veritably god- like.

It is truly my superpower.

Was so stressed about trying to do what I thought someone wanted yesterday, there were actual tears and this morning when I thought it’d been put to bed, I found out differently.

Relax. Slow down. Get clarification. Open your fucking mouth. If you can’t tell what someone ‘s trying to say, at least tell them what you think they mean. They can help steer you in the right direction. Be patient and expect it in return.

So much easier to touch. To kiss. To hold and stroke and moan and writhe.. but:

Tell them. What YOU want, what you need. You’re there too.

You don’t have to be lonely or unsatisfied because things are difficult. Sometimes the difficulty is necessary to end up where you want to be.

Eventually you learn each other’s language; end up speaking a secret dialect you create together. Yes, you learn what each other likes, but you need to be able to let your partner know when that changes.

Hang in there, baby.

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